Build Happy Marriage

The husband and wife should do the work to build a happy marriage

After marriage, both spouses have an equal role in creating a happy and prosperous bridal life.  And it's not always the same.  Sometimes it decreases.  There is a rural proverb in our country - "The world is blessed by the grace of a woman."  This shows that sometimes the role of a wife in a family becomes even more important.  But both husband and wife have some independent role in creating a happy marriage.

 We should know that a happy and favorable family background can serve as the most helpful force in building one's self.  Favorable family environment is a very important factor in the development of personality and talent.  The family develops to focus on the family relationships of a woman and a man.  The closer this relationship is, the more compassion and respect it gets, the more pro-active, orderly and well-planned the family conduct will play an important role in developing the talent and creativity of the family.  We can freely say that the basis of a happy family and a favorable family atmosphere is love and compassion, respect, discipline and spiritual solidarity.  In a favorable family setting, the relationship between men and women is complementary.  In the family environment this complementary solidarity can play the most important role in the development of one's self-esteem and talent.

 Some rules and procedures can be followed, regardless of male and female, to create mutual love, compassion and orderliness to create complementary solidarity in family life.  Following these rules and procedures will make it easier to develop one's personality and talent as family life becomes tidy and compassionate.  Both men and women should be working to build a successful and happy family:

Things to do in the life of a person: -

• Trusting and trusting in the Creator.
•  Regular worship / worship.
•  Being responsible and confident.
•  To study regularly for self development.
•  Always be optimistic and mourn.
•  To be clean and tidy.
•  Be timely and regular in everything.
•  Work with the plan in advance.
•  Wear decent and elegant clothing.
•  Eliminating gossip and gossip.
•  Seeking False Exclusion
•  Regular self-criticism

Thingsto do in person: -

•  Always smiling
•  Always be pro-active.
•  Keeping the balance between words and actions.
•  Doing nothing in the face of anger and anger.
•  Avoid arguing and arguing tactics.
•  Don't make false promises to anyone.
•  Try not to deceive anyone.
•  Do not envy anyone.
•  Do not harm others with wisdom.
•  To be proficient in expressing sentiment and emotion.
•  Trying to make yourself an ideal person.
•  Humane treatment of employees and housekeepers.

Things to do in family life: -

• Husband and wife try to understand each other.
•  Don't listen to the words of others.
•  Remove the misunderstanding by discussing yourself.  The third is to not indulge in it.
•  Don't talk about the house.
•  To pray regularly for one another.
•  Not to say that there can be turmoil and strife in the family.
•  If you have a close family, everyone should see the child.  Shop for the same quality for everyone.
•  Most families decide on travel, entertainment.  Take it all in.
•  Conduct regular self-development discussions with all the family members.
•  In the eyes of the society, the abstinence of the visible relationship.
•  Avoiding relationships that cause misunderstandings in the marriage.
•  Providing home workers with their own standard meals.
•  To turn the family environment into a smoke-free and addictive area.

To do as a wife in the family: -

• Every act of the world should be worshiped.
•  To think of yourself as the life of the family.
•  To consider the husband as a friend, spouse, mentor and family head.
•  Do not do anything to hide your husband.
•  Feeling proud of the husband's good work, contributions and achievements.
•  To remain faithful to the husband at all times and to show love and affection in words and in conduct.
•  Do not make any problem or complaint as soon as the spouse comes out.
•  Feel free to confess or apologize to your husband if something goes wrong or wrong.
•  Sometimes buying a small gift for your husband at the expense of your own hands.
•  Spend your earned money for husband and family if needed.
•  Do not make any unreasonable obedience to her husband.
•  Have an idea about the husband's reasonable income.  Keeping the cost of the family limited in income.
•  Do not force your husband to become corrupt by creating additional costs and pressures.
•  Standing like a steep hill beside her husband in any danger or crisis.
•  Do not give anything to the husband in secret.
•  The husband's relatives and relatives should not be searched.
•  Respect your father-in-law like your parents.
•  Trying to solve the problem of the house itself.
•  Not arguing with the husband in front of the child and criticizing his or her mistakes.
•  Even if you are a businessman, take care of the children and the world so that there is no neglect.
•  To treat any disability of the husband with sympathy.
•  Assist the husband in self development and spiritual development.
•  Do not shorten your husband to others.
•  As a mother, trying to develop the qualities of a great human being in the child.
•  Always keep the gas stove closed out of necessity.
•  To raise awareness among all families against all kinds of wastage.
•  Don't be proud  Don't overlook your own hardships.
•  Keeping the house clean and tidy.

To do as husband in the family: -

•  To think of yourself as the husband is the main responsibility of the family.
•  Remembering the duties of family is worship.
•  To consider a wife as a girlfriend, spouse and head of a household.
•  Consulting the wife in every family decision-making.
•  Appreciating the wife's good work, contributions and achievements.
•  To be faithful to the wife and to express love and affection, words and actions.
•  Do not express anger at work or outside, anger at the wife or children of the house.
•  Acknowledge your mistakes to your wife.  Apologize for wrongdoing
•  Meeting the needs of the wife on the basis of income, giving small gifts and handcuffs, and not asking about the cost of handicrafts.
•  Giving freedom to the wife at the expense of the wife's money and resources.
•  Fulfilling the abdomen according to the wife's reasoning.
•  From the very beginning, to give the wife a clear idea about income and not to make money in illegal ways.
•  In the event of an occupational or family crisis, openly discuss it with your wife.
•  Do not impose an unreasonable barrier on the wife to give gifts or help to relatives.
•  Don't listen to his wife's relatives.
•  Respecting a wife's parents like her own parents.
•  Do not interfere with the opening of the house.  Helping with household chores.
•  Do not reprimand children for wrongdoing of a wife.
•  One day a week is spent with the wives and children.
•  Every job in the house is like having a picnic in the kitchen.
•  To treat any wife's wrongs with sympathy.
•  Do not defame your wife.
•  Always seek to gain professional skills.
•  Don't waste money.  Don't make passionate shopping.
•  Trying to find your own fault.
•  Ask for a wife's physical inquiries regularly.  Take yourself to the doctor if you are ill.
•  Listen carefully to any complaint of the wife.  Refrain from saying a proposal or word first.
•  Spending time with the club or friends for work outdoors or for the spiritual and psychological well-being of the family without wasting time on loose ends

•  Husbands and wives should:
•  All children should be treated equally, irrespective of their children.
•  Don't criticize your child for saying negative things.  Don't curse your child in anger.
•  Developing a child from the earliest.

Giving the child enough time  As children grow older, be aware of their friends.  Creating a cordially friendly relationship with the child so that the child feels emotionally at home with the parents.  Presenting yourself as an example to your child.

•  Explain to the child the reason for his or her actions, not always the order.
•  Do not let the child ask for anything immediately.  Do not meet the wrongdoing of the child.
•  If the child is 8 years old, he should also be involved in family counseling.
•  Keeping an eye on whether the child is being victimized in the name of entertainment.
•  Helping your child grow into a skilled human being using science and technology.
•  To create opportunities for the child to develop moral, emotional, spiritual, creative qualities.
•  Encourage the child to take up an independent career instead of a job.
•  Get used to greeting the child first and shaking hands.
•  Providing the family with proper financial ideas in front of the child.  Don't lie about finances.

There are happiness and sorrow and tears in the husband's wife's bridal life.  Again, in this sweet life, there is nausea.  However, if the period of monotony is longer then you may be unhappy in the marriage.  Therefore, by avoiding human misconduct in this case, the husband and wife can easily create a happy family environment if both husband and wife are properly cared for.